On November 13, 2010 I gladly became the primary caregiver of my mother. She has Lewy Body Dementia, the second most common memory loss condition after Alzhiemers. I knew nothing about Lewy Body Dementia until I brought Mom to Indiana to live with me. My mother is a resident at the Waters of Covington, a rehabilitation center near our home. I would like to have her live with us but her care is more then one person can provide. The staff at the Waters fell in love with Mom immediately. She may be losing her memory and her ability to care for herself but she hasn't lost her sense of humor or her gentle grace. This blog is meant to be a journal of our days together.



On May 15, 2011 My Mother peacefully and fearlessly passed into the here after. Now I journey alone, yet not alone. I have a lifetime of memories.




Wednesday, April 27, 2011

How Do I Win This Fight

I shortened my work days so I can be at the nursing home more. Not so I can be with Mom more but to keep an eye on her care. Her turn schedule is a pain. Some NA just don't take it seriously. They do not turn her before going to the dining room for the meal and then she is the last patient they take care I'd after the meal. She can EASILY go more the four hours before they think to turn her. Or they do not get her on her side enough and she is mostly on her back (she has a bed sore on her but and should not be on her back). So I am taking a $100 a week cut in pay to insist my mother is turned appropriately.
I am pretty sure I am going to make a few enemies before this is all over. The NA's are going to figure out that I don't care a xxxxx about their feeding schedule. If Mom could eat they would be feeding her so they can give her a few of the minutes they don't have to spend feeding her and turn her. I am so close to really loosing my temper.

Now, I have classes I have to take for work. The class meets once a week for three hours. It takes me an hour to drive to the class site. The classes start next week and will run through August. But if these lazy NA don't get their act together how can I concentrate on what I need to learn? The classes are important to me. I have prayed for the chance to take these classes for a year. They will provide me with a certificate that will allow me to keep in stride with much younger people in my field.

This is the source of my frustration.


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